Flexibility

In marriage, I have learned that compromise and flexibility are key to keeping a home in harmony. I have also learned over the past 11 years with my husband, that at times, we are both a bit stubborn and set in our ways. Compromise sometimes feels like defeat, and flexibility sounds like a dirty word.

Working with each other to find an amicable solution that fits the life your building together is far from defeat. Sure, there will be long, hard discussions, and heads may bump along the way, but compromise and flexibility and willingness to see views other than your own make life worth living.  What you thought of as good, in the realm of flexibility will become great.  Life is full of twists and turns, and sometimes it's the unexpected things that try our souls, but bless our lives forever.